Thoughts on Christmas in Japan vs. America, my surprising first Christmas in Japan, and Japanese food for poor single men

Well, the stockings are hung by the chimney with care, and we're all getting ready for a wonderful Christmas around here. My family got in from Japan a few days ago, and the kids are fully into "American Christmas mode," shaking all the presents to try to guess what's inside. The holiday is a relatively recent cultural import to Japan, and Christmas there can be a little different from what you may be used to. To the Japanese, Christmas is usually more of an excuse to have a fun party than a solemn time for family, or more recently, an extra reason for parents and grandparents to spoil the kids by getting them something from Toys "R" Us. Christmas Eve is also a day for lovers to go on that special date, generally considered more important than Valentine's Day, and if you want to take your sweetheart out to a nice restaurant you might have to plan ahead a few months.

I'll never forget my first Christmas in Japan. I'd not expected the Japanese to be very religious, so after arriving in my city I was surprised to find myself surrounded by a kind community of Japanese Baptists who ran a friendly church complete with a kindergarten for the local children. I enjoyed observing my new friends and seeing how similar they were to folks in the U.S. -- there seemed to be no differences at all, other than the language. In the grand tradition of Americans living in Japan, I was asked to play "Santa-san" for the kids, and I had great fun ho-ho-ho'ing as I handed out presents, as always being careful to speak only English, since that's what language Santa Claus presumably speaks. (I've since donned Santa suits dozens of times -- there must be something especially Christmassy about my personality as seen from the Japanese point of view.) I was of course surprised to find that Dec. 25th wasn't even a holiday in Japan, and driving in a traffic jam on that particular day takes some getting used to, I can tell you. One unfortunate aspect of Christmas for foreigners who haven't been "in country" too long is homesickness, since Dec. 25th is always a hard day to be away from family, no matter where you are in the world. Bottom line, Japan is a nice place, but the best place to enjoy Christmas is home with the people you love. All of us at J-List sincerely wish you and your loved ones a wonderful and warm Christmas holiday this year!

Merry Christmas from J-List

Merry Christmas from J-List and illustrator Shikei (creator of Snow Drop)

I'll never forget my single days back in college, surviving on foods like frozen waffles, Campbell's soup, Kraft Macaroni and Cheese and that great friend to the pool college student, Top Ramen, which could be had for 3 for $1 back in the day. Japan has its own varieties of "bachelor food" too, so easy to make that even a single guy could handle it. First and foremost is the category known as "cup ramen," which seems to be as close to the hearts of Japanese consumers as cold cereal is to Americans. There are hundreds of varieties, from cheap noodles in a styrofoam bowl to the high-end "nama type" noodles which are fresh, not dehydrated, for a more authentic ramen experience. Next comes Bon Curry, boil-in-bag curry that allows you single men who can't prepare Japan's staple dish from scratch to enjoy it nonetheless. Poor men living alone love to eat "sea chicken" (tuna fish) mixed with mayonnaise spread over rice with a dollop of soy sauce, too. Japan is a country that puts great store in doing things the "proper" way, and when it comes to a single man (or woman) living alone, this is defined by cooking rice using a rice cooker on a daily basis. When I was living alone, everyone I knew would ask me "Are you cooking rice for yourself everyday, as you should?" almost as a greeting, not unlike "How are you?" They were invariably amazed that a foreigner could wash and prepare rice for himself without help.

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Here are today's "really cool products" that I've picked out for you, out of the 30+ new items we've added to the J-List and JBOX.com sites today. Note that some products may be "not safe for work" but that all links will allow you to redirect yourself either to the J-List or JBOX.com websites. To see all the J-List products, check out J-List or the JBOX.com updated products link.

Mushroom Mountain -- Caramel  Macademia Nuts
New Japanese Snacks. We've got some really great J-Snacks for you, including Mushroom Mountain in Caramel and Macadamia flavor, Meiji Chelsea candies (Hokkaido Milk), and a delicious item, Morinaga Koeda in Kiman Tea Flavor.
Re-ment 'Let's Go! Panda Class' -- Full Set of 10
Re-ment "Let's Go! Panda Class". Re-Ment is the company that makes really cute miniature toys, and the new series features something really cute: panda bears who are going to school. And baby pandas are definitely the cute thing for Christmas 2007.
Cinnamoroll Shaped Lunch Box
Cinnamoroll Shaped Lunch Box. We've got a cool new item for bento fans: a Japanese lunch box shaped like Cinnamoroll, the cute new character from Sanrio who makes you think of delicious cinnamon rolls. Comes with dual compartments for separating your food nicely.
My Melody Curry  Stew Plate
My Melody Curry & Stew Plate. Then, we've gotten in these super-cute Curry & Stew Plates featuring My Melody. These are deep plates especially made for enjoying foods like curry and stew, two treats the Japanese love to eat.
Japanese Ninja Ying Yang Sword Strap w/ Power Stone
Some Cool Traditional Items. Another nice item: phone straps featuring Ninja Swords on the ends, which you can attach to your cell phone, keys, Nintendo DS, PSP, or just about anything.
Chocobo Plush -- White Mage ver.
Restocked Chocobo Plush -- White Mage ver. Chocobo is the super-cute character from the Final Fantasy games, and we've restocked our cute White Mage versions. A very huggable item from Japan!
Progressive Knife Replica *Preorder*
Progressive Knife Replica *Preorder*. Here's a rare item for the Evangelion fan: a replica of the weapons the EVAs used for close combat, rendered in safe PVC and plastic materials. Available for preorder now.
Totoro *Jumbo* Playing Cards
Totoro *Jumbo* Playing Cards. My kids and I like playing card games (called "trump" in Japanese, using the British term), and these extra large Totoro playing cards are really great for large or small hands. I recommend them.
30 Patterns Deluxe Origami (150 Sheets)
Various Stationery Items. See some stationery items back in stock, including authentic origami paper (150 sheets included!) as well as tape that helps you learn hiragana -- fun!
Green Tea Pretz w/Black Honey Syrup Flavor
Finally, Restocked Snacks. Lots of snacks back in stock today, including the hugely popular "Melty" Kit Kat in Apple flavor as well as Vanilla Beans Kit Kat, Almond Crush Pocky, and Pretz in Tomato and Green Tea flavor!
Sola Aoi in Doll House  Tobidasu Sora Aoi
Sola Aoi in Doll House. How cool would it be to have the gorgeous Sola Aoi (aka Sora Aoi) trapped in a miniature doll house, going about her daily routine of bathing, getting dressed while you watched in through the windows? That's a question we'll leave up to the philosophers.
Love Affair
New Manga Volumes. Today's new works include Ero Wife Communication, featuring plenty of experienced married women being naughty, and Love Affair, featuring eleven individual stories of extremely satisfying "H."
Idol Forever -- Kyoko Ayana, Monbu Ran, Mai Sakashita
Idol Forever -- Kyoko Ayana, Monbu Ran, Mai Sakashita. Next, enjoy three of the hottest JAV idols of the past, re-mastered to bring you the most detail possible. Big "oppai" queen Kyoka Ayana, delicious Ran Monbu (whose name sounds like the French dessert Mont Blanc) and the fabulous Mai Sakashita, are all waiting for you.